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I still remember the first day I saw Michelle. It was about 14 years ago. She came walking into the food store as she began walking. Michelle was drop dead gorgeous. She had the perfect height, very long hair, great looks?.she had everything! It wasn?t her beauty that mostly attracted me. It was her walk. She came to work. She didn?t come to b/s which is what most workers do. You can tell this ?girl? was ambitious, good at what she did, and focused.

An earlier version of me would have approached her. I had learned from experience that didn?t usually work. It works best for me when the female notices me. My older sister (who is now deceased) would often tell me to ?stop chasing them, and let them notice you?. That wasn?t the only reason why I didn?t ?go after? Michelle. I was slowing but surely being led to Jesus. I was changing inside. I decided that if God wanted me to meet Michelle then He would make it so.

Things changed when my ex began working at the foodstore. She began telling Michelle about me and Michelle began looking at me. She and I never talked. We would see each other in the store but never spoke to each other.

Two and one half years ago that changed. Looking back I now realize that there really are two forces reaching out to people. You have God?s force and the other force. It?s often very difficult to know which one is talking to you. I was told in early 2009 that ?Love? was coming my way.

I walked in Beacon Street Bar one night. The bar tender remembered me. Me and my ?thug? friends used to ?tear that bar up?. A band was playing. The lead singer was from the Dominican Republic. I love the Dominican Republic. This singer took a liking to me immediately. At the same time I would shop at the food store and Michelle and I always ended up in the same isle. She and I would be directly (sometimes very close) next to each other.

I liked Michelle from day one (14 years ago). Many females make it so hard. I?ve learned never to waste my time on females who play too hard to get. Confusion seldom leads to satisfaction. Most of my relationships were women who pursued me. There are a few where I was the chasing. I enjoyed chasing females in my earlier days. Life is much different now. Romance just doesn?t cut it like it use to. Bills have to be paid, God comes first, and time is fleeting.

My most romantic moment with Michelle was when we were closely?standing in the isle. I had decided not to show her any interest or flirt with her because of the female?Dominican singer. I could tell that Michelle was waiting for me to open up conversation. I decided not to. I didn?t want to hurt anyone?s feelings. As I stood by?Michelle she started singing. That?s what you call ?woman?s intuition?. Something inside of Michelle ?knew? about the Dominican singer whom I had befriended.?As I walked away from the isle (and Michelle) she said, ?goobye~~~~~? as if she wished I had talked more.

As time went by (and people left my life) Michelle and I drew apart. Michelle often would have a little ?cocky? attitude. I come from a very dysfunctional family and I hate attitudes.

My final attempt to ?be cool? with Michelle occurred when I gave her an invitation card to a religious service. She rejected the card with her ?cocky? little attitude. She was the only person out of?30 to reject the card.?It took me a few days before I decided to cut her off entirely.

There were alot of strange occurrences that led me to Michelle. I can?t list all of them. I will, however, list this one.

I noticed things were changing at that foodstore. The prices were getting higher. I eventually noticed that the shelves were diminishing.

I suddenly had a craving for a Raspberry Snapple. I drove to the foodstore and searched to no avail. The ?Spirit? led me to the back isles where Michelle and I used to be. There was one bottle of Raspberry Snapple waiting for me. The store isles were almost bare.

That foodstore is closing down. A new foodstore takes over that store next week. I don?t know if Michelle will still be employed or not.

The timing implies that Michelle?s game playing and moodiness led to her job loss while I?was blessed to?sip on my favorite ice tea drink (as if given to me from Heaven).

I arrived at the foodstore earlier that week. Michelle was outside the store. She was staring into the parking lot as if she was looking for someone.

I looked at her but decided not to speak to her. Soon as she saw me she turned and started walking away from the store.

I looked back to see if she would look back at me. She did.

Yea, I know. Another ?love story?. What could have been.

Ladies, stop playing love games.

Gents, stop playing love games.

This article can be freely edited and utilized as?long as credit is given to its author (Gary Colin).

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